tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post1031272275479457948..comments2024-03-09T16:33:07.940-05:00Comments on A Breeder's Journal: Sunday Morning Questions: Virgins, Dragons, and Glory Holes EditionMr. Steedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-75806294893429207612012-12-11T17:21:40.314-05:002012-12-11T17:21:40.314-05:00What a sweet story about your friend and tarot! Th...What a sweet story about your friend and tarot! Thanks for sharing it with us! Jasonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-71017803188571026102012-12-11T08:29:31.392-05:002012-12-11T08:29:31.392-05:00Yes, only as a top...and a dominant guy who is a b...Yes, only as a top...and a dominant guy who is a bit of a masochist. <br />Frankly, I am awed by men who enjoy and thrive on pain. I do not understand it, but I do enjoy being a part of it. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-39220591887103228642012-12-09T22:22:16.453-05:002012-12-09T22:22:16.453-05:00This is a good example of getting out and experien...This is a good example of getting out and experiencing everything you've been missing so far, resident. Good for you. I think it's a little bit unusual—no judgment implied!—that you've done SM and bondage but haven't been topped yet. Most guys start the other way around! (Of course, if you've been doing it as a top, it makes sense.)<br /><br />Do it when you're ready. And pick the right guy for you. He doesn't have to be the right guy for forever, or the right guy for a year. He can be the right guy for a night and still give you the experience of a lifetime . . . just make sure he's the one you want to do it. <br /><br />And most of all: have an awesome time.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-54319677662936890642012-12-09T22:17:41.783-05:002012-12-09T22:17:41.783-05:00Hello, Breeder. I just have to comment and tell m...Hello, Breeder. I just have to comment and tell my own little story in your space. Hope you don't mind. Regarding the comments about taking a guy's anal cherry...I am an anal virgin. <br />Been married, struggled for years about gay, straight or bi. I chose to get married, to have kids, and to live up to the marriage vows I took, the fidelity, etc. No comment or criticism intended for others, it is just the way I am. <br />After a divorce, I revisited guys the way I had when I was in college and shortly after that .... before marriage. I like it. I like it much better than with a woman. And I've tried most of it...straight fucking, 3-way, a little bondage, a little SM, a lot of SM, being a dom, etc. But, I haven't been topped. <br />I have decided I want to, but it is not something that I have to do...tonight. I will, but only when I meet the guy who really wants to do it, and I want him to do it. Some may say that I'm being too idealistic, that I'm saving it for a true love...and maybe some of that is true. But I am long over the 'Fathers Knows Best' image of love and marriage. I just want someone who really cares, and is willing to make it as painless as it should be.<br /><br />Thanks for your stories..<br />-a Richmond resident.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-39318173097191650172012-12-09T21:44:26.039-05:002012-12-09T21:44:26.039-05:00The whole virgin—thing has only allure if the virg...The whole virgin—thing has only allure if the virgin in question isn't forty. Or thirty. Or even twenty.<br /><br /><i>I also occasionally saw a guy whose 'gloryhole' was a bedsheet with a hole cut out of it that he'd hang from hooks in the ceiling. That was lame. </i><br /><br />Wow! Budget glory hole! <br /><br /><i>It's really a beautiful set of tarot cards, and whenever I look at them, I think about my friend from those years with great fondness, and remember all the fascinating authors and artists to which she introduced me. </i><br /><br />A toast to the Departed. It's wonderful that you keep your friends with you, and remember them that way.countesszerohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01550120026831486854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-17750224118779454832012-12-09T17:13:23.028-05:002012-12-09T17:13:23.028-05:00Thanks, Unknown! I appreciate it.Thanks, Unknown! I appreciate it.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-36122658366009544692012-12-09T17:13:10.080-05:002012-12-09T17:13:10.080-05:00I don't really understand it either, FelchingP...I don't really understand it either, FelchingPisser. Give me a jaded whore anyday.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-72896005208496331482012-12-09T17:12:40.323-05:002012-12-09T17:12:40.323-05:00This is true to an extent, cyberi4a. I never claim...This is true to an extent, cyberi4a. I never claimed to be representing anyone's opinions other than my own.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-86770787300312998982012-12-09T17:06:22.752-05:002012-12-09T17:06:22.752-05:00Sad that other can't get past the fact that yo...Sad that other can't get past the fact that you may not wish to have sex with someone for your own personal reasons, just like I'm sure they don't want to have sex with someone for their own reasons.<br /><br />They wouldn't like someone telling them off for it, but thanks to hiding in cyberland, they think nothing of blasting someone else. <br /><br />Doesn't the top of this page say 'A Breeders Journal' and not 'I'm here to write whatever you believe in'. People need to remember who's blog this is and who's life/thoughts/beliefs are being expressed.cyberi4ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06309025181649016156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-89336471377744404912012-12-09T14:34:27.696-05:002012-12-09T14:34:27.696-05:00The lure of virginity is totally lost on me. I li...The lure of virginity is totally lost on me. I like my men expereinced.....FelchingPisserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02458625059974106288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-55118715226430244892012-12-09T13:33:19.990-05:002012-12-09T13:33:19.990-05:00I'm glad to see the 'Sunday Morning Questi...I'm glad to see the 'Sunday Morning Questions' back. I missed them last week. And the tarot card story is very touching - how thoughtful to remember your friend in that way.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10849105297213320313noreply@blogger.com