tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post5401983284139626858..comments2024-03-09T16:33:07.940-05:00Comments on A Breeder's Journal: Sunday Morning Questions: Courage EditionMr. Steedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-19446740668755326992012-01-07T13:19:16.403-05:002012-01-07T13:19:16.403-05:00Someone once told me I was a mix of Patsy and Kare...Someone once told me I was a mix of Patsy and Karen Walker....matthewrnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14248023875546071528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-49594571205363393752011-12-30T09:53:05.171-05:002011-12-30T09:53:05.171-05:00Oh PS...your "Oh honey" quip reminded me...Oh PS...your "Oh honey" quip reminded me of the King of Mississippi.<br /><br />SephAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-91415707219952711972011-12-30T09:46:35.250-05:002011-12-30T09:46:35.250-05:00Man my ears started burning...I wonder why???
Tha...Man my ears started burning...I wonder why???<br /><br />Thanks for the plug, but now I'll have to post regularly. Darn. And while there's no shortage of beardolisciousness to procure, I'm trying to keep it to a certain "look", which is more limiting. Perhaps on slow weeks I'll have no choice but sneak pics of me in there. <br /><br />In the past 4 weeks I've gone from zero to a full beard and rocking handlebar. If I don't tire of my mustache in my mouth or Salisbury Steak on my face, I should be a beast in no time.<br /><br />As for the Ab Fab conundrum goes, my bestie and I both lay claim to Eddie, although he's adamant that I'm Pats and I'm certain he's a Saffy-Gran hybrid. <br /><br />SephAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-6989489133373073502011-12-21T02:48:13.891-05:002011-12-21T02:48:13.891-05:00I've always felt blessed that when I was young...I've always felt blessed that when I was younger no one ever thought to try and teach me that same-sex love was bad. In fact, it wasn't until after I had already had sex with men that anyone ever tried to convince me of it. I had heard people making rude jokes about gays in middle school, but back then we didn't really know what we were talking about, and wouldn't have known a homo if he was in drag and singing Cher. Before I was in 8th grade I already knew a boy who had come out and we were good friends. I don't know how I missed all that repression, but I think part of it was my mother being very liberal, part was my dad being too lazy to teach me his conservative ways, and I was introduced to sexual stuff early on. By the time my father had "the talk" with me (a week before I went to college *snort*) I had already had sex with more people than he had in his life. Everything he told me I pretty much just rolled off my back.<br /><br />Anyway, like you I always applaud those willing to push their sexuality to where they are comfortable, and to try new things. Sex is fun, and sex is about having fun. When it gets boring, you're doing it wrong. That's my thoughts, at least.<br /><br />-AceAcehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16689622131508698674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-4537096610408797232011-12-19T11:58:30.229-05:002011-12-19T11:58:30.229-05:00Rob, thanks for the link to the Beardos, Indies an...Rob, thanks for the link to the Beardos, Indies and Baddies site, holy crap there are some hot guys on there.<br />:-)zeppp42https://www.blogger.com/profile/05993625135233269750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-53688214267355777212011-12-19T08:24:35.799-05:002011-12-19T08:24:35.799-05:00I grew practically up with gay men and women and a...I grew practically up with gay men and women and as a European woman born after the revolutionary year 1968 (coughs ... much ... er, later of course ...) I was fortunate enough not to have to understand certain concerns about same-sex love. Of course I was <i>told</i> that not all life choices were accepted everywhere but to me it all sounded rather fantastic–like reading about the Witch hunt in the medieval ages: something long past and absurd. Until I lived for the first time in the States and in Asia.(I don't want to imply America is less tolerant; merely that I had my first encounter with a closeted homosexual person in Washington DC.)<br /><br />If I had children myself I'd let them read your blog ;)countesszerohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01550120026831486854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-41801220609588965612011-12-19T07:16:49.370-05:002011-12-19T07:16:49.370-05:00I feel so much like the guy coming out in his fift...I feel so much like the guy coming out in his fifties (though I'm only 48!). Thanks for mentioning him.<br /><br />Along the lines of coming out, I wish many more of us could really adopt your positive attitudes regarding sexuality in general. I think of my kids finding my blog "by accident". They are both adults and it isn't like they are prudes or living in a bubble; They know that people have sex - I just think it would be creepy for them to know that their own parents have sex! <br /><br />Kidding. A little.JFBreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10719992585455828870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-48784502989022374162011-12-19T02:53:16.353-05:002011-12-19T02:53:16.353-05:00Did you see "Beginners"? It's a film...Did you see "Beginners"? It's a film that deals tangentially with this topic of coming out at a certain age. Christopher Plummer is great in it as well as Ewan McGregor, who plays his straight son.Manuelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00778748992692135064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-73552208935449509892011-12-18T18:30:08.683-05:002011-12-18T18:30:08.683-05:00Now you've embarrassed me my posting my typo. ...Now you've embarrassed me my posting my typo. Keel was supposed to be Peel.<br /><br />Purday has a special spot for me, 'cause she was my first, but having seen them all now, I'd definitely wnat Peel at my back, too. Besides, she's Canadian.Kevin Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06475381029054976131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-90851416952420526632011-12-18T15:34:52.842-05:002011-12-18T15:34:52.842-05:00I'd say it probably takes more courage to come...I'd say it probably takes more courage to come out when you're over 50 than it does when you're 20. You have more to lose, for one thing.<br /><br />You write: The most I've taken in a single day was about 17, when I was in my teens.<br /><br />I can't seem to find the blog entry about this. I feel certain you've written one, but if I'm wrong...well, would you? :-)Jnk Nswthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15493421591202792554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-29813859731141291542011-12-18T12:16:05.377-05:002011-12-18T12:16:05.377-05:00I too have trained or indoctrinated guys intereste...I too have trained or indoctrinated guys interested in the notion of male/male at the suggestion of people who know me. Though I haven't done so in a while, two things are certain. The person has been brave enough to tell someone he needed an experience, but more importantly they want some kindness on their first time. Regardless of how vigorous the sex may or may not be, there is an inherent kindness born of gratitude for being allowed to be the guy's first. I absolutely agree that sex between consensual adults should be fun and erotic and carried out as both people wish it to be. I run with a cadre of older wealthy men here in Bakersfield--some of whom lived closeted because they had to--and what I gain from them when we hang out is amazing. Loved this post.<br /><br />Matthew DarringerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-6424906514890752252011-12-18T10:42:47.408-05:002011-12-18T10:42:47.408-05:00I was like that gentleman (closeted, married, fath...I was like that gentleman (closeted, married, father, etc.) until I was 50. I'm out, divorced and in a long-term relationship with a real gentle man for ten years now. It's never too late. I certainly didn't want to be on my death bed and regret my life. <br /><br />Merry Christmas everyone. Peacebb55cthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06212539418564637436noreply@blogger.com