tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post7204464865569291484..comments2024-03-09T16:33:07.940-05:00Comments on A Breeder's Journal: Open Forum Friday: Itchy Finger on the Block ButtonMr. Steedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-61323601521503826242012-06-21T09:07:57.426-04:002012-06-21T09:07:57.426-04:00Chances are good that you're more likely to re...Chances are good that you're more likely to remember him for the rudeness (and it is rude!), than he is for your photos. Those men are a waste of a time and breath. Block 'em.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-78317835829887010752012-06-21T09:06:58.612-04:002012-06-21T09:06:58.612-04:00Bruce, I will block guys with whom it didn't r...Bruce, I will block guys with whom it didn't really work IF they start hitting me up on a new service. If they leave me alone, I don't tend to do it—but that's mainly because I don't spend much time browsing the profiles so much as I let people hit me up.<br /><br />I'm a lazy arrogant top that way.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-27070010789571681502012-06-21T09:05:08.341-04:002012-06-21T09:05:08.341-04:00This. Thank you.This. Thank you.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-81712524589624024092012-06-21T09:04:58.852-04:002012-06-21T09:04:58.852-04:00Okay, that's really stalkery and creepy. I don...Okay, that's really stalkery and creepy. I don't blame you.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-80663409487072884622012-06-21T09:04:44.660-04:002012-06-21T09:04:44.660-04:00Thanks Butch. That's just what a stubborn mule...Thanks Butch. That's just what a stubborn mule like me wants to hear!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-40355209940640432532012-06-21T09:04:27.438-04:002012-06-21T09:04:27.438-04:00Mmmm, I really have been looking like Laurie, of l...Mmmm, I really have been looking like Laurie, of late. Luckily, I've always found him attractive.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-64650078783734335582012-06-18T11:23:18.885-04:002012-06-18T11:23:18.885-04:00I have a highly analytical husband and I am more t...I have a highly analytical husband and I am more than mouthy. Well I hope my son writes as well as you!Kathy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04238877732203595704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-7659815174306246112012-06-16T17:52:20.178-04:002012-06-16T17:52:20.178-04:00There is a guy on a hook-up site that has been aft...There is a guy on a hook-up site that has been after me for a while. We'd never been able to meet because of each other's schedules. I finally had a good time to get together and said so. He's all enthusiastic though he wants more pictures of me, when there are plenty of all types on my profile. Once I email him more pictures that really are just variations of the ones already online, he writes back that he's not sure I'm his type. ((((rolling my eyes))))) Fine, whatever, stopped talking to him online. A few months later, he tries to chat with me again and wants to hook up!? WTF?! I hate men who play games.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-47987573094761610522012-06-16T11:19:54.665-04:002012-06-16T11:19:54.665-04:00I can't tell if I'm stubborn or not, but I...I can't tell if I'm stubborn or not, but I actually don't even block the guys that do the repeated messages. I don't want to give them the satisfaction of any response. So, I think I've only gotten the stalked-on-another-site-angry-message only once or twice. <br /><br />But I do block the guys that don't have a public face pic that I've chatted with before but we weren't a match (in either direction) just so I don't waste his or my time hitting him up again. I'm good at recognizing faces. Cock? Not so much... And I'm all about efficiency. Ha!Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-17565484724525312462012-06-16T08:35:44.921-04:002012-06-16T08:35:44.921-04:00Fastest way to get blocked is to make assumptions ...Fastest way to get blocked is to make assumptions about my relationship with my partner based on your opinions of love and monogamy. My relationship with my partner is between he and I and when you start lecturing me about being "cheating scum" before you know anything about the open and honest relationship we have, all that's gonna get you is a "fuck off" and the block button.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-51102874897255231292012-06-16T04:18:26.319-04:002012-06-16T04:18:26.319-04:00The only person I blocked was a man I met in a cha...The only person I blocked was a man I met in a chat room which I frequented using my alias, THEN he sent me a friend request on my RL Facebook, followed my RL Twitter and finally claimed to know me ... in RL.countesszerohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01550120026831486854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-45029102225654614312012-06-16T00:02:47.386-04:002012-06-16T00:02:47.386-04:00Be a stubborn mule and stay ur course. U have it ...Be a stubborn mule and stay ur course. U have it right. Fuck the teases and pretendersButch 57https://www.blogger.com/profile/10949324767536389965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-55990276274050540472012-06-15T19:18:04.767-04:002012-06-15T19:18:04.767-04:00My top reason for blocking is the same as one of y...My top reason for blocking is the same as one of yours. Don't badger me via email every minute or so. It just seems desperate.<br /><br />I have to say though, your comment about not wanting to cam because you look like Hugh Laurie after a night of drinking and brawling isn't really a good excuse. It just made me horny!Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10528604130864537422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-60613949214973082732012-06-15T15:22:36.787-04:002012-06-15T15:22:36.787-04:00See, John, you get me. Sniffle.See, John, you get me. Sniffle.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-35688339117528300822012-06-15T15:22:23.199-04:002012-06-15T15:22:23.199-04:00Man, I AM a crab.Man, I AM a crab.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-31630272614879551172012-06-15T15:22:10.643-04:002012-06-15T15:22:10.643-04:00Multiple/daily tracks bugs me a little, but I find...Multiple/daily tracks bugs me a little, but I find it FAR less obtrusive and obnoxious than the men who IMMEDIATELY send me a message of "LOOKING?" or "now????" every time I log on.<br /><br />I just this minute blocked a guy on Manhunt who did that, in fact, only he topped it off with 'Why don't you ever talk to me???" Because you make me dread logging onto the fucking web site, asshole, that's why.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-74380607850253391282012-06-15T15:20:20.894-04:002012-06-15T15:20:20.894-04:00Only you get to get away with this, Mr. Throb.Only you get to get away with this, Mr. Throb.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-8675761264524839882012-06-15T15:20:06.065-04:002012-06-15T15:20:06.065-04:00I know all the synonyms for 'crabby-pants!'...I know all the synonyms for 'crabby-pants!'<br /><br />I was being a little mean with Mr. Any-Cock, but he was one of those Michigan guys who said for half a decade we were going to get together sometime and who never was available or made a move, and who further didn't even notice I'd moved to the east coast over a year ago until last week.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-67811671359029231182012-06-15T15:18:39.443-04:002012-06-15T15:18:39.443-04:00Twitter is entirely different from other social ne...Twitter is entirely different from other social networks. So many people use it as a source of news and entertainment that courtesy follow-backs really don't (and shouldn't) apply.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-68823818100156683122012-06-15T15:17:13.632-04:002012-06-15T15:17:13.632-04:00Highly analytical father + Mouthy and passionate m...Highly analytical father + Mouthy and passionate mother = MeMr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-30695026110387976182012-06-15T15:16:36.278-04:002012-06-15T15:16:36.278-04:00But from my perspective, Mike, my online persona I...But from my perspective, Mike, my online persona IS pretty much the same as who I am in real life, so I tend to assume that about everyone. If someone projects a stable and pleasant online persona, I'm going to assume (until they prove otherwise) that they are a trustworthy and good person to be around in the flesh. If someone acts like a freakshow online, though, they're not going to get a shot at coming near me in person.<br /><br />I think politeness is important, but there are a whole lot of people out there who will seize upon one's politeness in an attempt to manipulate. As you say, politeness has its limits.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-48161071114211990062012-06-15T15:13:19.063-04:002012-06-15T15:13:19.063-04:00Thanks Matthew!Thanks Matthew!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-22350440414916321362012-06-15T15:13:06.676-04:002012-06-15T15:13:06.676-04:00Yeah, that kind of stalkerish behavior is not real...Yeah, that kind of stalkerish behavior is not really acceptable. <br /><br />Or rather, if you're going to stalk someone like that, do it quietly and keep the results to yourself. Curiosity is fine, but bragging about how you've stalked a guy is pretty creepy.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-24151327106597334382012-06-15T15:12:05.879-04:002012-06-15T15:12:05.879-04:00Obviously, so do I!Obviously, so do I!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-77458339125936800082012-06-15T13:06:16.152-04:002012-06-15T13:06:16.152-04:00To the boobs who want to know "how very dare ...To the boobs who want to know "how very dare you" block them, I presume you reply, "Am I bovvered?"<br /><br />:-)John in Atlantanoreply@blogger.com