tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post7343687400693628098..comments2024-03-09T16:33:07.940-05:00Comments on A Breeder's Journal: Four Little DropsMr. Steedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-8937163167933441262012-06-18T11:51:21.742-04:002012-06-18T11:51:21.742-04:00I am impressed by how open you are to vulnerabilit...I am impressed by how open you are to vulnerability. It is not often I hear a person talk about opening up to possiblities. More often than not people are on the defense trying to avoid their emotions. I bet people are quick to share with you. <br /><br />We have similiar views. I like to let it all hang out. Get to know people and see where it leads. I have been blessed with many rewarding friendships and I have been fooled a few times also. All in all I wouldn't change a thing.Kathy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04238877732203595704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-58299409580172148562012-06-17T20:36:52.357-04:002012-06-17T20:36:52.357-04:00Scotrock, that's so interesting an interpretat...Scotrock, that's so interesting an interpretation that it took me aback for a little bit. But the more I replay it in my head, the more I'm convinced that he wasn't talking about the volume he produced, but the fact that a squirt and a few seconds of shivers was all he had to show for the hours he put into cruising and hunting for sex, and the risks of meeting new men.<br /><br />I mean, he didn't say that, but the context seemed pretty clear to me. I could totally be wrong though.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-37187523603226695572012-06-17T20:04:10.718-04:002012-06-17T20:04:10.718-04:00I read this a bit differently, I think. To me it...I read this a bit differently, I think. To me it sounded like a cri de couer from someone who is getting older and seeing evidence of his libido/sex drive disappearing. It annoys me when I j/o if I get 4 little drops. That seems to be happening more often especially if I j/o daily. The younger me produced bigger loads (though never a gusher). If I went to the trouble of meeting a hot guy and having an awesome time and only shot 4 little drops, I'd feel embarassed, I'd be bothered that the other guy would feel short-changed in some way.scotrockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17198432671060324327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-8262478908904686982012-06-15T08:54:01.089-04:002012-06-15T08:54:01.089-04:00Shit's scary out there, like you said, CoolTop...Shit's scary out there, like you said, CoolTop. And I don't think it's crazy at all. Lots of us invest sex with real power. As a society, we invest sex with power. We claim it ruins lives, we claim a whiff of it destroys childhood, we act as if it's simultaneously the best and worst thing out there, and yet we refuse, as a group of functioning adults, to have serious, non-hysterical dialogue about it. <br /><br />Some of us are just willing up front to discuss how it works in our lives. It doesn't make us better than our brothers, but it does make us more open.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-91355299761320474152012-06-15T08:51:08.514-04:002012-06-15T08:51:08.514-04:00Johnathan, good for you. You don't have to tak...Johnathan, good for you. You don't have to take that kind of abuse from anyone!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-50407703664589251582012-06-15T08:50:42.821-04:002012-06-15T08:50:42.821-04:00Well sure...but when you're this guy's age...Well sure...but when you're this guy's age, you should've grown past it!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-80543534369108073352012-06-15T08:50:25.240-04:002012-06-15T08:50:25.240-04:00Thanks, Anonymous!Thanks, Anonymous!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-54277590630587489922012-06-15T08:50:11.635-04:002012-06-15T08:50:11.635-04:00You are so right, Kevin.You are so right, Kevin.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-34421449869847101372012-06-15T08:50:00.406-04:002012-06-15T08:50:00.406-04:00Get laid, Tom!Get laid, Tom!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-86500287173728960972012-06-15T08:49:44.701-04:002012-06-15T08:49:44.701-04:00If that's all it takes to be schizophrenic, th...If that's all it takes to be schizophrenic, there are a lot of diagnosable cases out there.<br /><br />No, the guy's just human, and letting post-orgasm depression get the better of him. That's all.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-46991595130370012982012-06-15T08:49:07.292-04:002012-06-15T08:49:07.292-04:00*rim shot!**rim shot!*Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-84322350387686345352012-06-15T08:48:43.491-04:002012-06-15T08:48:43.491-04:00Never stop being piggy, Piggy!Never stop being piggy, Piggy!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-20985159600352729292012-06-15T08:48:27.388-04:002012-06-15T08:48:27.388-04:00Jack, even if you're not as bad, maybe you'...Jack, even if you're not as bad, maybe you'll think next time and realize it's just a temporary physical response, and not let it get to you.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-41066592725016754682012-06-15T08:47:44.549-04:002012-06-15T08:47:44.549-04:00No, I don't think you can fix other people'...No, I don't think you can fix other people's perceptions. That's something they need to do for themselves. I write about it so that others can see the world through my eyes, though, and then figure out what parts to appropriate—or reject—for themselves. It's all good.<br /><br />Thank you, Mr. Throb.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-4338516073535663022012-06-15T08:46:41.783-04:002012-06-15T08:46:41.783-04:00Ace, you should never be grumpy.Ace, you should never be grumpy.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-54263778533227475562012-06-15T08:45:55.170-04:002012-06-15T08:45:55.170-04:00Thank you, cyberi4a.Thank you, cyberi4a.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-4187675760553044172012-06-15T08:45:41.604-04:002012-06-15T08:45:41.604-04:00Jason, I appreciate it.Jason, I appreciate it.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-16286834492811223932012-06-15T08:45:30.751-04:002012-06-15T08:45:30.751-04:00Thanks Joey!Thanks Joey!Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-86584008970688179412012-06-15T08:45:19.056-04:002012-06-15T08:45:19.056-04:00Yeah, I suppose being able to see someone's ps...Yeah, I suppose being able to see someone's psychology in those moments is a blessing in itself.Mr. Steedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439409354795921043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-31591160641065917862012-06-14T22:34:58.304-04:002012-06-14T22:34:58.304-04:00Funny, I just posted something similar from the ot...Funny, I just posted something similar from the other side (I had a really lousy experience the last time I got off, capping off a lousy fruitless week of cruising, but remain Pollyanna about the ultimate worth of cheap sex). Sometimes it's kinda crazy how much power I invest sex with. But I agree that it's more than just squirts, and it's sad to think that way.<br /><br />I've been with guys like the guy you describe, too. Years ago, sometime in my late 20s, I went to a bar down the street from my apartment just to have a drink and watch the crowd, not really looking to hook up at all, and was aggressively courted by a handsome, unassuming-looking little guy who *really* wanted me to go back to his hotel and screw him. I was game, and he was very cute in how greedy and into it he was; it was all very lighthearted and fun and I'd never been with anyone who was that gleefully into sex before (and few since then, really). But *seconds* after he came, he curled up into a little ball and shook and started talking about how he had to go to Confession! It was insane. I tried to hold him and calm him down but that only upset him more; I gave him my card and told him to email me if he ever wanted to talk about it before I left. He'd told me in the bar that he was closeted and had a girlfriend in Indiana, but it was all very easy-breezy on his part, so the coda to his orgasm was waaay out of left field. <br /><br />Shit's scary out there, I'm glad to be how I am about sex.CoolTophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03885957454533789762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-30306392273184892222012-06-14T01:59:46.391-04:002012-06-14T01:59:46.391-04:00I had sex many times with a guy like this. We met...I had sex many times with a guy like this. We met in our neighborhood, at a public rest room. And then we would see each other outside once or twice a week. He would take me back to his place and give me an amazing fuck. And as soon as he came, he would completely change into an asshole. I realize now that he was closeted, and lived with his girlfriend, and had some deep issues. But each time we met, the sex got hotter, and he got nastier after he came. But he was SO hot, and SO well hung, that I took the abuse several times. However, I turned it around, and would cum before he did, and then take off, leaving him with blue balls. The second time I did this, he asked why I'm leaving, and I told him exactly why. From then on, he was able to control himself a bit better after cumming, and we met many times since.<br /><br />Jonathan in IsraelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-1025469193783927762012-06-13T20:57:26.286-04:002012-06-13T20:57:26.286-04:00Beautiful, it did require some growing up to get o...Beautiful, it did require some growing up to get over the guilt thoughAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-40244744507858995072012-06-13T20:23:28.449-04:002012-06-13T20:23:28.449-04:00Sex is to be enjoyed, not felt guilt about...you c...Sex is to be enjoyed, not felt guilt about...you could not have put it in better words!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-67229939036497015712012-06-13T17:02:03.903-04:002012-06-13T17:02:03.903-04:00Some people never get that it's partly about t...Some people never get that it's partly about the journey. If you don't enjoy cruising; don't enjoy meeting new people and the interplay of glances; don't enjoy the unique scent of another person or feeling someone else's heartbeat or the rise and fall of their chest beside you, and you aren't out to make babies, then I can see wondering if it's worth it. Frankly, the smell of another person's skin and the feeling of their heat next to me and those signs of life that come from their body going about its business beside me on the bed can be worth as much or more than the few seconds of ecstasy.Kevin Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06475381029054976131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12316001024335229.post-68214000069996983172012-06-13T16:38:18.474-04:002012-06-13T16:38:18.474-04:00When the connection happens and the heat of the mo...When the connection happens and the heat of the moment can linger after the moment ends, then yes it is always worth it. I don't know what to say about your partner with the 4 little drops there. I have felt that tristesse as well, but not in a long time. Maybe that is because I haven't gotten laid in a long time either!Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10528604130864537422noreply@blogger.com