So. How are you guys doing? Anything going on? Anything new to report? Yeah, me neither, I guess. Same old, same old, right? In all seri...

It’s the end of the year, and I’m a little thoughtful of late. So if you’ll allow it, I’d like to compose a couple of meditations on forgive...

Not too long ago I was telling a friend of mine the reasons why I was no longer attending a semi-regular group sex session held at a motel l...

Orgies. Group sex. To a lot of people, myself included, the terms are no big deal. To others, they’re fraught with anxiety. Most of the se...

Deal-breakers. All of us have them. What’re yours? Not that long ago I was going about my day when I got a direct message on Twitter. It w...

Taking a six to eight weeks hiatus from my sex life—rather unwillingly, I might add—does a couple of things to a guy. For one, I was feeling...

One of the things I love about the area where I live is that no matter what the night, no matter what the hour, there’s always weird shit to...

I had one of those birthdays last week. It wasn’t a milestone birthday in the traditional sense—that is, the year didn’t end with a zero. Bu...

After nearly three years of blogging about my sex life, I’ve developed a keen eye for the subjects that tend to be contentious. I know which...

When I was a very small kid, my parents sat me down and had a talk about my genitalia and its synonyms. Penis was the preferred term for wh...

Apparently, when it comes to crushes, I have a type. And that type is big, pretty, and stupid. Also, it doesn’t hurt if the guy’s a barten...

I’m just going to throw it out there in a way I haven’t, before: I don’t like to 69. Whew. That was liberating. Let me say it again: I don...