Sunday Morning Questions: Facebook Edition

You guys kept asking. Because I don't already sink enough hours of my day into my blog and into Twitter, or into answering your emails, I've gone ahead and this week created a Facebook account for my readers to befriend. And please, feel free to do so. You won't find me playing Farmville on there, and I promise I will never ask you to join my Mafia family. You might get the occasional hello or update, though!

I'd like to say I appreciate everyone's patience last week, when I was out of town for several days. And I very much enjoyed reading your comments on this week's open forum. The topic of age difference seemed to strike a chord with a lot of people. One of the things I've been liking about my open forum topics is that although it sometimes seems as if we've all had different experiences, most of us can still come to a mutual appreciation of where we've been and how we've gotten there. To me, that's golden.

As usual, I'm taking this Sunday morning to round up some of the questions I've addressed over on formspring.me, that website where you can address anonymous (or not-so-anonymous) questions to your favorite (or not-so-favorite) people. If you've got questions, please feel free to ask them. I'll answer anything that's not super-repetitive or outright obnoxious.

Do you only play with guys or have you been with other women as a married man?
While I find it easier to hook up with men, enjoy the simplicity of a no-strings man-on-man encounter, and am more attracted to men in general, I have many times been with women in the last twenty years--primarily with married couples. Just not lately.


If you started dating someone, and later found out that he had an extensive sexual history (only from before he was with you) would this end the relationship for you? under what circumstances would this be a problem or ok?
Jeez, I'd hope he would have a history. The guys who do are usually much better in bed.


When you lost your virginity did you bareback?
Indeed I did.


Have you ever fucked a guy as agile as Spencer?
If I have, he didn't use that agility during sex.

He should have. I like it.


Dude, I love your blog, is that your cock in the pic?
If you mean the photo at the top of the screen, yes, that's me.


On your blogs banner picture (which is pretty friggin hot, btw), is your wedding-band-hand showing on purpose?
I'm not sure about on purpose, but it is showing. I don't usually remove it, but that's about the height of mental calculation that went into its inclusion in that photo.


do you wanna lick christiano ronaldo's body? all of his body?
I had to look him up, I'm afraid. No, not really.


I want to get fucked for the first time, any advice?
I would suggest that you look for a guy who's going to sensitive to your virginity, for one thing. The first time's always different from how you might imagine it, and someone who's going to be aware of your needs, and who'll also do what's necessary to get the job done, is probably going to give you your experience.

I would also suggest playing with toys, if you aren't already, in order to get used to the strange sensations.

And finally, make sure you're clean for your first experience, so that it's pleasant for everyone.


Of the $530 you deposited (The Bank Book - 12/9/10) - what was your average take and/or how many men did that represent? And how long did this pimping of your services go on? I know I'm looking forward to more stories.
That initial deposit was from the first couple of parties I worked for Earl. I'd usually be in a dark bedroom, available for use; there was a tip jar by the bed for men to drop bills into after they'd dropped loads into me.

I'd guess that the initial amount would've been from parties attended by a total of about 15-20 guys--some of whom tipped more than others.

The pimping of my services by Earl lasted until I went away to college when I was 17. The pimping of my services in general still happens, from time to time. :-)


How do I add an 'ask me' box like this on my blog?
If you go to 'settings' on the formspring site, then select 'widgets,' you'll get instructions how.



On average, how long do you spend writing a blog entry? Are they written on the fly, or days before you post them? Do you have any writing "routines" i.e. Favorite place to write, time of day, etc...?
The only time I've written blog entries days before I post them is when I've known I'll be on the road for a solid week. Usually I write the posts the afternoon or the evening before they appear, and post them so that they appear in the early morning.

I try to take no more than an hour to write a blog entry, but some of them have taken considerably more than that. I usually write in my den, on my notebook computer, earbuds in, music loud.


You mentioned you like Treasure Island videos. Do you have a favorite video? Which TIM bottom would you like to fuck?
"Breeding Mike O'Neill" is my favorite TIM flick. From start to finish, an excellent film. If I had to bottom for any guy in the TIM stable, it'd be Jesse O'Toole. He'd make me yell, I know, but his fuck technique is highly attractive.

"Breeding Ian Jay" is a close second in my favorites. Ian Jay and Christian would be the top TIM stars I'd enjoy fucking.


Have you ever had sex in your room at home? Did you worry mom would hear?
When I was younger? Yes. During my college years and the couple of years after when I was in graduate school, my room in my parents' house was in the basement. It had a separate entrance. At night, after my parents were asleep, I'd sneak guys in through the cellar entrance and very very quietly let them bang me in my bed.

It was a naughty thrill, and a big turn-on for many of the men.